Abortion supporters..respectfully asking clarification on your point of view?

I am honestly just trying to see the other side's point of view on the abortion issue. No disrespect intended, I honestly just want to know. Can you tell me why you support abortion and why you feel that abortion is not the murder of a child? Opinions of at what point it actually becomes a life aside, why is it not killing when the act of abortion does technically end the life of a child (whether it is a child now or later)? I know many believe men are the ones against it because they don't have to carry and birth the child, but I am a woman and have had 2 children (carrying my third) and have had to make that decision and carry those children. Respectfully asking for your side and your point of view on the issue, please no disrespect one way or the other, whether from you to me, me to you, or answerer to answerer. Just looking for an adult discussion on this issue. Thanks in advance!